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Real life dilemma - you told a big lie

by Jummy

A friend of mine told her coworkers a big lie when she first started working with them. Whether she did this because she was embarrassed to admit the truth, or didn’t think her relationship with some of the coworkers would deepen, it’s hard to tell. I don’t believe she even knows why she didn’t admit the truth.

I know the truth and although I don’t think it will affect how people treat her in the long run, I think she should set the record straight (at least with the coworkers she has become close with) and tell them the truth. My other friend says that since this truth will not affect her relationshiop with her coworkers, she should let sleeping dogs lie and not bother setting the record straight.

What do you think?
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Posted in Your Turn on July 27th, 2007

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2 Responses to “Real life dilemma - you told a big lie”

  1. Matt Says:
    July 29th, 2007 at 8:21 am

    need to know more info about the lie, and possible conskwences

  2. Dave Baker Says:
    August 14th, 2007 at 4:15 pm

    I guess it depends on what the big lie was. The truth is always best as you never have to worry about making lies to protect the truth. :)

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