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At Last – The Law of Attraction for
Regular People
Copyright © 2009 Carol King
www.missingingredientcoaching.com
At Last
The Law of Attraction for Regular People
Carol King
(aka Coach Carol)
It is a common sense thing really. Look around, do some research and
you will soon have a picture of just how much of the western world is
over weight. Now if all of these lotions, potions, machines and programs
really worked the majority of the western world would be slim fit and
healthy.
Ok, so why don’t diets work? If you are beginning to have a deeper
understanding of the law of attraction it will be easy for you to answer
that question.
The law of attraction states that like attracts like, that we attract what
we focus on the most and we become what we think and feel about the
most.
Then it stands to reason that if a person feels that they need to loose
weight, their focus and attention is fixed upon loosing weight, and if their
attention is fixed upon loosing weight what will they attract? Yep, having
to loose weight. They will live their lives in a constant state of having to
loose weight. It is much like needing money to pay your bills, as you fix
your thoughts upon needing money; you simply create a deeper and
deeper need for money.
If you decide you want to loose weight, you must accomplish two things
before you even consider creating a plan of action. Firstly you must learn
to love yourself, it will be impossible to loose weight if you do not love
yourself, I will explain why later on. Secondly you must forget that you
need to loose weight.
If you can accomplish these two things and begin to see yourself as the
magnificent child of God, all-powerful being and limitless creator that
you are, reaching your perfect weight will be as easy as reaching into the
refrigerator for a refreshing bottle of water.
Amazing Body Tip #1
No more insults. One thing that many overweight people do is constantly
direct very negative words towards them selves. Every time they pass a
mirror and catch sight of their silhouette the insults or negative mind
chatter starts. This goes back to what we were talking about in the
previous chapter about loving yourself. A huge part of loving yourself is
stopping the insults and speaking kindly to your self.
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When you see yourself naked stop and look at your body, really look at it
and understand that you created it so you can change it. Also when you
look at your body, remember that is all it is, a body. It is just the casing
that carries your true self, the better wiser higher you. An oyster is not
enjoyed because of its shell, it is enjoyed because of what is inside and so
it is with you. It is time for you to enjoy yourself because of who you
really are and not because of the packaging of you. Stop playing with the
bubble rap and get to the gift inside.
Think of all the things you love about your body, your gorgeous eyes,
your sexy mouth, your luscious hair and focus on those things. When
you catch sight of your reflection do not start criticizing say ‘hello
gorgeous’ look away and move on. I promise you that if you keep that up
for a month you will suddenly find that when you look at yourself in a
mirror no insult will come to mind, you will have trained your mind to
accept the new belief, you are gorgeous.
Start seeing yourself the way others see you. This was a huge one for me.
Instead of walking around all day long complaining that I was over
weight, I started to look at people when they gave me a compliment and I
mean really look into their eyes, to see what they saw in me. What I saw
amazed me. I saw true admiration, respect, and love and yes sometimes
sex. I found it shocking but very exciting to discover that some men
thought I was very sexy, especially when all I could see was way too
many bulges.
Instead of laughing it off or immediately countering a compliment with
an apologetic insult, I started to smile and say ‘thank you, I appreciate it”
and I truly did, because every time I received a compliment it added more
evidence to my mind that I was a worthwhile human being and worthy of
respect, admiration, love and sex. Doing this over a period of time really
helped me to begin looking at myself in a completely different way and
helped me recognize my own value.
Amazing Body Tip #2
Reach your perfect weight. If you are serious about using the law of
attraction to reach your ideal size then I highly recommend Perfect
Weight by Deepak Chopra. What an amazing little book it is, in just a few
short chapters Chopra manages to spell out why traditional weight loss
methods do not work and then goes on to give a detailed specific plan on
how to discover your true body type, how to eat correctly for your body
type and how to exercise correctly for your body type.
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This book resonated with me because it is not a weight loss book, notice
the title, it is not called the Chopra Diet or Loose Weight with Deepak.
No, it is much more than that, it is a life style change and this is in total
harmony with the teachings of the law of attraction. The law of attraction
is not about jumping into action to make things happen it is about
changing yourself on the inside so the things around you on the outside
change automatically.
Amazing Body Tip #3
Do it for you. If your mother wants you to loose weight, tell her to ______.
If your father wants you to loose weight tell him to ______________.
If your extended family, friend’s, co-workers or neighbors want you to
loose weight gather them all together and tell them to ______________.
Basically do not go after perfect weight because others want you to.
Perfect weight cannot be obtained because it is the wish of someone else;
it has to be your wish. If you are over weight and yet you are active and
healthy and you are happy in your own skin then the others can talk till
the cows come home.
Do no try to live up to what other people think is the right standard for
you. They cannot make that call for you, only you can do that. If you
follow their commands and loose weight you will still not be happy and
most likely you will put back on the weight anyway because it is not
what you wanted in the first place. So politely or not so politely if it is
necessary, tell your well-meaning family and friends to back off and leave
you alone, you are happy and if you are happy they should be happy for
you.
A few years ago two of my weight obsessed Aunt’s came over to visit, it
got to the point where I could no longer take their well meaning
suggestions for how I should go about loosing weight and I told them that
I was not trying to loose weight and I wanted to gain weight so that I
could become a female sumo wrestler. Needless to say this left them
rather bewildered and concerned, so they immediately turned their
attention to my mother to try to come up with a plan to save me from
myself.
I continued telling people that I was trying to reach sumo size for quite a
few years until I realized that it was a cop out.
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I was justifying my weight, albeit in a rather bizarre way. I then changed
my focus and stopped apologizing. When anyone told me I needed to
loose weight I thanked him or her for the input and told him or her that I
was perfectly happy the way I was. It did not take long before I noticed
that people stopped commenting about my weight all together.
The universe responds to your strongest, feelings, words and actions.
I was emitting a frequency of love and acceptance of me, so wherever I
went people loved and accepted me and did not see the over weight body
that I was previously so obsessed by.
Amazing Body Tip #4
Get off your butt. No amount of visualization, affirmations or positive
thinking is going to help you if you sit in front of the TV night after night
stuffing your face with potato chips and popcorn. There must be some
activity in your life. It does not mean that you have to go and join the
skinny people gym and face the staring and sniggering. It just means you
have to put in some effort. In Deepak Chopra’s book Perfect Weight he
mentions walking for 30 minutes a day. You could start by walking for
20 minutes twice a week and build up to longer more frequent walks.
But it does not have to be walking; your activity could be playing with
your dog in the park, going swimming, using an exercise bike at home,
running around with your kids in the yard or raking up leaves in the
garden. It does not matter what you do, just do it for at least 30 minutes
and do it frequently, daily is best.
Also make sure it is something that you enjoy doing; you will not keep it
up other wise and do not view it as the exercise that you have to do in
order to loose weight, think of it as the activity you love to take part in
daily because it makes you feel good.
Amazing Body Tip #5
Be patient. The amount of time it takes to reach your perfect weight will
depend upon several things like, your level of belief; you’re past
experiences and your level of vibration. So no one can tell you how
quickly you will reduce your weight. Be patient, kind and loving to your
self this will definitely speed up the process. Do not jump on the scales
everyday to check to see if you are really loosing.
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By doing this you’re emitting a frequency of lack of belief, you are telling
the universe that you do not believe that it will deliver your perfect
weight to you, so that will become your experience.
Relax; follow the tips in this e-book and in Deepak Chopra’s Perfect
Weight. Devise a plan for yourself, use affirmations, visualize yourself at
your perfect weight and most importantly enjoy the process, it is not a
test of speed but one of determination. If you are truly focused on the out
come of your request, if you remain a vibrational match for your desire
and if you make healthy choices for yourself the result must be perfect
weight.
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